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This reminds me of when people say that after a couple gets divorced officially, they go straight from the courthouse to a hotel room and have sex.I can honestly say I personally don’t know one couple that has done that. ” Did a lot of people you know tell you they did that?

However, when it comes to dating divorced men, some are more ready to date than others.

If you meet a cute divorced guy, be on the lookout for the following Red Flags: Red Flag #1: His Divorce is Recent As I discuss in , divorce can devastate a man both financially and emotionally.

The marriage/ divorce thing is meaningless if you're just not that into him. I was trying to give him a chance, but now I'm not so sure if I want to date someone who failed at marriage 3 times.

And, for all you know, one of those was poor drunken decision making while in Las Vegas when he was 20. Especially because I met a guy I do spark with a lot, even though he's not as mature. I was trying to give him a chance, but now I'm not so sure if I want to date someone who failed at marriage 3 times.

If that is the case, my opinion is that they are trying to cover up a deep wound with a temporary Band-Aid, and it never works.

The movie “When Harry Met Sally” is a great example. I’m not judging anyone who has sex right after they get separated or divorced from someone, I’m just saying don’t expect it to be anything more than a temporary fix to your issues.Harry deals with his divorce by sleeping with a bunch of women. It’s kind of like taking antacids to fix your stomach issues instead of trying to figure out why you have stomach issues: stress, eating habits, drinking, NSAIDS, lack of exercise/yoga, and then changing your lifestyle to fix the problem so you don’t need the pills.Remember the scene where Sally shouts, “You’ve already slept with half of New York and I don’t see that turning Helen into a distant memory! In my opinion, people who are just getting out of a marriage need a lot of other things before sex.Would you date someone who has been married/divorced that many times by 45-55?Would you consider a LTR live in under the same category as a marriage (common-law)?” I remember dating a little bit after my divorce, but I didn’t get physical with anyone for a long long time. They need friends, therapy, faith, self-reflection, physical exercise, yoga, alone time, more time with their kids, a career focus, perhaps.

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